The other day I was at my grandma's weekly Sunday supper, where food usually includes mashed potatoes, corn, peas and roast beef, and conversation includes local politics, the Rough Riders and whether petunia's should be planted in the front or back yard. The topic of a family friends marriage came about and I had mentioned that they were going to have the most beautiful ethnically mixed babies. AND THEN the strangest comment came out of my granny's mouth..."Well you could date someone of a different race, Chantal, but could you handle 'cuddling' a big man?" I was so taken aback I didn't know how to respond. In my head I was thinking, "Did my grandma just ask me if I could handle a big d*ck?" UM WHAT?! I was like, "Uh I don't know grandma, could YOU?!" At this point I was just laughing, because I couldn't comprehend what had just happened.